Things to Remember
If your spouse has divorced before, you are in deep trouble, because they have learned from that experience. But don't give up! Just get busy!
Sooner or later it will become a "Bitter Divorce" so dig in and start protecting yourself, your children and your assets now.
The Judge does not give out 2nd Place Trophy's to the ignorant and unprepared, so get a lawyer and the sooner the better.
At this point you will beg them with all your might for a second chance, even though they were the ones that were cheating, GET OVER IT, they’ve already moved on to someone else, so you need to move on and start protecting yourself and your children.
AND ABOVE ALL GET A LAWYER BEFORE YOUR SPOUSE DOES SO YOU HAVE A CHANCE AT CONTROLLING THE SITUATION!!!
Most people can’t wrap their heads around their spouse’s “sudden” decision to divorce you so you need to accept it and move on and get busy.